If there are others reading my blog who have received the awful "incompatible with life" diagnosis here are two websites that I have found comfort in, especially during my 9 months of pregnancy. There are others out there, some are towards those who choose to terminate and some for those who choose to continue with the pregnancy. You can also find private groups on Facebook; there you can have more conversations with mothers/fathers going through the same thing as you.
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